Allison Holker posted a video on Instagram expressing gratitude to fans for their outpouring of support after the death of her husband, Stephen “tWitch” Boss. In the short message, Allison thanked followers for their kindness and for sharing memories that have helped her family through an extraordinarily difficult time.
“I just want to say thank you,” Allison begins in the video. “For all the love and support that you guys have sent to me and my family at this time.” She acknowledges how challenging and emotional the past weeks have been, and describes how stories and moments shared by fans have provided hope and inspiration to her and her children.
Allison goes on to reflect on Stephen’s character: “He was someone that was just beautiful, and he lived his life from love. And he made you feel a certain way.” She says that she and her family have always felt their purpose was to bring joy to people—whether through dance, through love, or through everyday acts of kindness—and that they will continue to live by that purpose even though life will now feel different.
“That’s not going to change for us,” she explains. “It’s going to feel a little bit different, but we know that that’s our purpose, and we’ll still do that to this day. I hope we can remember the feeling he gave us, and remember that we can still move from there. We can still move and choose love. We can still choose grace. We can still choose kindness.”
Allison closes the message by assuring fans that she will continue to be present and appreciative of the support the family has received: “I will always be there for you guys. And I appreciate you guys being there for us at this moment. It goes a really far way for us. So thank you.” She ends by reminding viewers of their worth and the positive impact they have on the world: “I hope you guys remember how special you are, and how much of an impact you make around the world, and continue to move from there. We love you guys.”
Tributes and coverage
Since Stephen “tWitch” Boss’s death, fans and colleagues have shared tributes and memories that underscore the reach of his influence. Many have recalled the warmth and joy he brought to performances, television appearances, and behind-the-scenes moments. Those remembrances have been a source of comfort for Allison and the family as they navigate grief.
About Stephen “tWitch” Boss
Stephen “tWitch” Boss died by suicide on Dec. 13 at age 40, and reports indicate he left a note that alluded to past struggles. He had a prominent and varied career in dance and entertainment. A hip-hop dancer by training, Stephen first rose to broad recognition as the runner-up on season 4 of So You Think You Can Dance in 2008. He returned to that series in later seasons as an all-star dancer, mentoring and partnering with contestants, and in 2022 he served on the show’s judging panel.
Beyond that series, Stephen’s career included television, film, and hosting roles. He performed on Dancing with the Stars in 2013 and joined The Ellen DeGeneres Show in 2014 as the show’s DJ, later taking on an executive producer role. He hosted the E! competition series Clash of the Cover Bands in 2021 and had a film appearance in Magic Mike XXL. In 2017, Stephen and Allison co-hosted the documentary series Disney’s Fairy Tale Weddings, bringing their shared energy and passion for dance and celebration to audiences.
Throughout his career, Stephen was widely recognized not only for his technical skill and stage presence, but also for his ability to connect with people and to infuse performances with joy. Those qualities are central to why so many fans and fellow performers have expressed sorrow and admiration since his passing.
Family, grief and moving forward
Allison Holker’s message emphasizes resilience and a commitment to the values she and Stephen shared. She highlights their family’s purpose to bring joy into people’s lives and urges fans to carry forward the compassion he embodied. In thanking supporters, she notes that the shared memories and expressions of love have provided meaningful comfort during a time of intense loss.
As the family continues to mourn and to honor Stephen’s legacy, Allison’s words serve as both a personal message of thanks and a gentle call to remember the power of kindness, grace, and love in daily life. The family has requested privacy as they grieve, and Allison’s public message stands as a heartfelt acknowledgment of the support they have received from around the world.
This moment has prompted many conversations about mental health and the pressures faced by performers and public figures. While details surrounding Stephen’s death remain private to the family, the outpouring of tributes highlights a shared desire to celebrate his work and the positive effect he had on countless lives.